Chrissy, I wish I could advise you on what to say, but to be honest, I have no idea. One thing I would advise though is a counsellor. They will help you deal with it all, and also help you with the kids.

Emily's face is starting to get better. Had to take her to the hospital yesterday as it got worse. They've told me to stop using any treatment, and I can only treat it with water only. I have to take her back in tomorrow for a check up, and if they're not happy with it, they'll admit her and treat her there. It's such a mess. Here I was thinking I was doing all the right things, and it turned out I wasn't. But I know it's just one of those things, that you just don't know until something like this happens.
Thanks for asking Helen.