Gee chrissy that was real unfair of him to do that.Its one thing to give support but not that kind! I think if you have real affection for each other its great but you need time to heal first.He should understand this if he was any kind of friend. And your reaction indicates that you are not ready. Patience and kindness is what you need atm and who knows in the future....You do deserve to love again.
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Belle how are you?
caddie, yes i do believe im not ready for this, and my reaction certainly showed me this, and as for attraction, i dont know if it is, or its just my emotions getting the better of me, just needing male company or closness again, but i do know im not ready, it feels like i would be cheating
Chrissy- omg... how insensitive! do you think he is using you prehaps as his link to craig in a sense? alot of people do things when grieving that thought was what they wanted.
it is very common bf of the deceased and previous partner to unite in that way..
craig actually told me a couple of months before he died, that ........ would be the first to come knocking if anything happened to him.........
luckily for me he was suppost to come up this weekend, but his car broke down and he couldnt make it, im pretty pleased with that as i dont think i could handle him right at this time.
Shell - pretty sure its just 2D but I will ask if theyll let us peek in 3D. I'll be 13wks so gender should be noticable and my boys were quite obviously boys so if we see something resembling a penis then its def a boy. Its going to drive me mad if they dont take a peek cause I will be looking anyway, Id rather they peeked and said oh cant really tell then let me make my own diagnosis lol
I say trust your instinct Chrissy, from what craig told you though sounds to me like his friend may have commented about you+him to craig before he died. Not very sensitive of him thats for sure.
Chrissy-Mmmmm I 2nd what everyone else has said. You need time. Hopefully he will leave you alone for awhile or at least get some sensitivity and be a proper friend. All the best hun.
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