shar - we got a V6 Rav4, and love it! It's a good sized car, but I'd probably suggest the Kluger for you guys instead, as it's even bigger. You can fit 3 kids in the back seat easily with the Rav, but like you said, your girls are going to be tall.

anna - oh gosh, weddings. EEEEEK! I never even thought of that, with having 2 girls. Good to hear that Ry isn't too disappointed.