caddie, yes i do believe im not ready for this, and my reaction certainly showed me this, and as for attraction, i dont know if it is, or its just my emotions getting the better of me, just needing male company or closness again, but i do know im not ready, it feels like i would be cheating
Chrissy- omg... how insensitive! do you think he is using you prehaps as his link to craig in a sense? alot of people do things when grieving that thought was what they wanted.
it is very common bf of the deceased and previous partner to unite in that way..
craig actually told me a couple of months before he died, that ........ would be the first to come knocking if anything happened to him.........
luckily for me he was suppost to come up this weekend, but his car broke down and he couldnt make it, im pretty pleased with that as i dont think i could handle him right at this time.
Shell - pretty sure its just 2D but I will ask if theyll let us peek in 3D. I'll be 13wks so gender should be noticable and my boys were quite obviously boys so if we see something resembling a penis then its def a boy. Its going to drive me mad if they dont take a peek cause I will be looking anyway, Id rather they peeked and said oh cant really tell then let me make my own diagnosis lol
I say trust your instinct Chrissy, from what craig told you though sounds to me like his friend may have commented about you+him to craig before he died. Not very sensitive of him thats for sure.
Chrissy-Mmmmm I 2nd what everyone else has said. You need time. Hopefully he will leave you alone for awhile or at least get some sensitivity and be a proper friend. All the best hun.
Chrissy - I agree with the others, you need time and this will only confuse you. This guy should know that you are in no state to be thinking about someone else so soon. If you can, try and put a bit of distance between him and you so you can see things a bit clearer. Hugs
Oh Chrissy hon that must have been so hard and emotional for you...shiat you have urges to and would understand if it felt right...but christ his timing is so WRONG!!!! Can he atleast give you time to grieve Craig a bit before thinking that way???
By the way babe.....it just proves even with all your babies..YOU STILL GOT IT HONEY
Happy birthday Tiana - I so hope your feeling better chicken.
Hello everyone...have all the kids home, dame school holidays and im getting sick so Maz is about ready to run to the hills
Chrissy.. Oh how rude and insensitive of him! Does he not have any respect for you or even his best mate?? or even your kids? I have to agree with the others in that i think you need some time to just greeve. How much time, who knows... i guess thats only something time itself will tell. I guess, if not just for you but also for your kids sake big
Happy birthday Tiana! Hope you are feeling alot better.
Chrissy- It was quite insensitive for him to make the moves on you, you need time to grieve and like you said you prolly miss the closeness and intimacy with someone and he really shouldn't be taking advantage of that. I think maybe tell him what he did is not on and have break from seeing him.
Chrissy - Happy birthday to Caity for yesterday! Im so happy you loved the presents!!!!! does she love the bag too? hope the clothes fit too! I was thinking of you while you were in Syd, but I was sick as a dog otherwise I would have caught up with u. When do you move? will drive up and see you and the kiddies sometime for sure. Cant believe Craigs mate, I had this funny feeling something maybe went on. His timing is not good thats for sure and where is his respect? how you feeling hon?
MAZ - Mat is just too gorgeous for words in your ticker!!! YAY on him chasing Vy!!! hehehehe
Happy birthday Tiarna!!!
Hello to everyone will have to catchup before more personals. Have to take Tara to the PAED tomorrow for her checkup shes got the flu now that we had.
Thank you everyone for the birthday wishes!!!! Thank you James for her pressie, she got very excited when she saw Hi-5!!!
We went to the surgeon today and he said everything is fine and it is just healing! The other doctor apparently had no idea and she is just having a bit of a tough time getting through it.
Maz - Yay on the crawling!!! He will be walking before you know it.
Chrissy - I really don't know what to say but if it feels wrong for you then it probably is... Am thinking of you.
Nessa - Your ex sounds like my dad. Just remember your girls will come to you for everything - he is the one who will miss out.
Sorry to all that I have missed. I am going to try and head to bed.
Happy Birthday Katy Rach and Jase, thinking of you guys today
Chrissy - Honey, I hope that Craig's friend will give you the space you need to grieve. If you want something later down the track maybe, but as everyone (but most importantly you) have already said, it's way too soon - and yeah, it was pretty damn insensitive to try it on now. Do you think maybe you wanting male company is more wanting Craig rather than anyone else?
Bea - Honey, the time will come when the perfect man for you will come around - I know it's hard to hear (you know I've been there), but give it time hun. Concentrate on you and your beautiful girls and when you least expect it - a great guy will come and sweep you off your feet And it won't matter that you're divorced, or have kids.
Ok, better get going, lots to do today and sitting here procrastinating isn't getting it done is it? Oh, Jodi - we got those photos done yesterday - can't wait to see how they turn out!! The photographer said she'll have them on her online gallery by tonight, so I'll send everyone the link when I get it.
I have had some very tragic news. My cousin was due to give birth in 4 weeks, and last night tragically the baby stopped moving. Today she is being induced. We are all just shattered. I can't stop crying thinking about this little baby who never got to take a breath..........................
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that must have been so hard and emotional for you...shiat you have urges to and would understand if it felt right...but christ his timing is so WRONG!!!! Can he atleast give you time to grieve Craig a bit before thinking that way???
HONEY
And it won't matter that you're divorced, or have kids.
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