Meg - all I can say is big hugs. I have one of those toddlers too, full time, I cant even go shopping anymore without mega issues. So not like Jett but must be the age. Im crapping my pants about having 3 in April, I live for my shopping trips because I dont have any friends here so its only interaction I get with the outside world. Dont feel bad about leaving him cry, we do it with Jett, better than screaming at them. Sometimes I want to scream and smack him because I get so mad and frustrated (clarifying - not that I do, I never smack in anger) Just remind yourself that it wont last, one day they will develop reasoning skills!

Maz - good luck for tomorrow, you'll be fine! What an exciting day for Nikolaus! Ive been there done all that catholic stuff, its pretty straight forward if only a bit long winded

Cads - er Im so glad I have sons is all I can say