Gee meg that sounds awful. I wish i could help you out. Even to babysit whilst you had a rest. Do you have anyone? Maybe DH should let you have a few hrs of recoup before he goes. Men just dont seem to understand.I love my girls but at times they depress me with the fighting and sleeping issues and esp millana's behavior.
Your not alone here..the thing is some of us have no help and thats what kinda makes it harder. I wish there was a solution..