AnnaT- Have you got savings tucked away so you do have something while you look to rent. Are you looking now or wanting to wait til you can see places in the flesh? I guess you could get friends to check out potential places you see on the net for you. Its bloody hard but you gotta remember you doing right thing, no point having kids raised in a household where the parents don't feel they should be together, they'll feel it, kids pick up on everything.

Jodi- so what was the wobbly about?

Maz- I'm with you on needing 'me' time. I've had Ash's name down for awhile at child care and still waiting for place but been thinking of occasional care. If its just me and Em at home at least once she has a nap I can relax for awhile. I should go look them up while I'm thinking of it.