Really? I'm so confused about the dummy issue girls, sometimes it seems like River is on the boob ALL the time, and he doesn't necessarily spend that time drinking, I think he is a comfort sucker...he was screaming and screaming, but was fed and changed, Rans changed him again (not sure any baby could scream that loud and not soil themselves ) and put the dummy in and he is quiet and sleeping now...

Are dummies bad for them? I heard it can cause confusion with breastfeeding, and I really don't want to screw up breastfeeding, but I know that a dummy will quiet him when nothing else works... Any advice? I really don't know what to do.