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Hi to everyone!
Rikki, Im glad to hear Ains is on the mend poor thing :(
My trip wasnt a total bust. I saw friends, ate lots and Jett got spoilt by everyone, esp my brother and sister. I should have known my mother would be well just like she always is but for some reason up until now Ive always had a tiny hope that she'd be back to her old self again. Instead, after prior warning we were coming, I arrive at 1pm to find her so drunk she cant stand up straight :wall: Then she proceeded to lie and swear to me she wasnt drunk and didnt tell the truth until I screamed until my throat hurt at her about how selfish she is. She hadnt even vacuumed the house so there was dog hair all over everything from my sisters dog and Mum knows what Im like about dogs inside the house who go on furniture. So I was forever wiping dog hair off Jett/out of his mouth. THEN Jett starting getting sick so she said she'd vacuum again (which is a huge process of borrowing a vacuum before she can do it) and STILL it didnt get done. By the time Wednesday night came around I was p!ssed off and Jett was getting real sick, and she was drunk again so I came home yesterday. She even told my poor sister that it was her fault I was leaving because my sister "hogs" Jett and never lets anyone have a go with him (like he's some fricken toy or something).
So this was the last straw, I dont care if people think Im a disgusting excuse for a daughter, it is OVER she wont ever be seeing us again. She's been in rehab twice, on medication for 4 years, going to therapy for just as long and she still isnt any better. She just blames her problems on everyone else and I cant let Jett be a part of that.
So AF showed her face early as well yesterday and boy has she been a doozy. My cramps felt like labour pains :o So I crawled to bed with my wheat bag and some nurofen but I still feel like crud. Now Jett is really sick with a green snotty nose and the worst cough I have ever heard.
:cry: I hate my life right now so if Im not around its because Im sooking and being lazy.
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ANnAT - My MSN is not working... damn damn.. next time i am on-line ill get your number and give you a call.. just remember that you are a wonderful mum and dont let the stresses of your mother interfer with that.. xoxo
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anna - you poor thing. It must really hurt seeing your mum like that, and having her do nothing about it. At least you can look at your mum and tell yourself that you can give Jett a better life, and a better mother.
Nina too has that cold and cough, poor little bubbas. Hopefully he gets over it soon.
Huge hugs for you and I hope you start having a better day today.
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OH AnnaT - big hugs honey, try and get some 'me' time today and a stiff drink will help to ;)
I cant get over tall these bubbies having colds and being sick. Poor little honeys. Big sloopy kisses from Vy to them all.
Vy just ate her half weetbix then totally destroyed a piece of vegemite toast. Unreal!
Hope everyone is having a great day. SIL is coming up from Melbourne today sao might not be on for a few days.
butterfly kisses to you all
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Morning all,
How come whenever its my day to sleep in and Df has to get up with Ashleigh she always sleeps in for him? Like today she didn't wake til 8:45! She never does that for me.
Maz- Wow Vys doing great with solids, Ashleigh won't eat anything thats not totally pureed but as long as she eats I'm happy.
AnnaT- Hugs sweety, just concentate on yourself and your son, you don't need that kind of behaviour in your liofe.
Jodi- Ashleigh also loves the video cabinet and removing all the videos and DVD's from it!
ambz- Wow massive post, I think most kids love newspapers, I let Ash rip it but avoid it getting in her mouth, will prolly just come out in her poo anyways!
Kell- It is starting to get funny how they're always doing things together! Next time we holiday to Sydney we will have to meet up and see what those 2 get up to.
Not much planned today, will have to think bout what I can get up to. still in PJ's at moment!
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Annat how sad.Sad for you because you dont get a mother who is loving and takes responsability for herself and sad for your mother too as she cant get control of her life or herself.Just take a backseat and look after yourself and your family.I dont know if you can totally erase her from your life but a visit now and then or perhaps sending photos of jett may get her to reevaluate her life.Unfortunatley she has an illness and it wont get better ever until she wants it.Sad,sad,sad.
Hope all these sick babies get better real quick.It seems to go in runs doesnt it!
Ruby has her needles.Ive been trying to avoid it but well shes 7months!
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Time for a new thread everyone!
