Ive decided to put Jett in occasional care with our local Neighbourhood house from 9-1 on Tuesdays, only costs me $13, theyre accredited, he'll be with other military kids and I think he will love it. Just enough time for me to have a sleep, clean, just have a morning to myself and he wont feel like Im leaving him there all day every day. I know what you mean Caddie, I want to get him going now before the baby comes because it will be a huge weight off my shoulders if he's happily playing for a few hours and I can spend time with bub, go shopping, make appointments for that morning etc I just know he will love it, he loves other kids.
I was still unsure until last night when I went to another military wife's house for a Mary Kay party. I wasnt going to go but I felt awful that she came round esp to invite me, she's a really nice girl (her hubby works with mine) and I said I'd go. I had a BALL! We gossiped and they told me that I have to come to their coffee morning in base every wednesday, if I dont theyll come fine me because I need friends and theyre great friends They were really positive about the daycare (they use it) as theyve all got kids (one of them goes to the playgroup Ive been thinking of going to so she's convinced me to do that too) and theyre outgoing and fun like me. I havent felt so, normal I guess, since before we moved to Perth. Ive been invited to another party (Crystal and Linen) tonight so I told Ry he'll have to put J to bed because Im not going to be rude and I like going out. Im even going to host my own Mary Kay party when MIL comes over. Things might just be looking up for me now!
Im feeling better m/s wise, still have to odd spew but I dont wake up dreading eating food. Ive even put a silverside in the slow cooker. J is asleep and has been since 10:30. Im showered and my hair is blow dried (I know I cant believe I managed to do all that in a morning!)
I lost my post I hit something and then it was gone and well I am too lazy to rewrite
well OMG what a horror of a night here, we went to darts which is ok, Jack was really well behaved had a doze and everything, we got home bit before 11pm he had another bottle, and a bit of a play si i thought we would all go to bed together he was acting all sleepy so put him inhis cot, he had a whinge but I thought I'll give him 5min well after 3min I had to go get him it then took over 1/2 hr to calm him he was a the poi t where he was so hysterical he was struggling to breath, (in the 3 min I left him he went from whinging to screaming that when I got up) I have no idea what was wrong, gave him some infants friend inc ase it was wind, his belly was nice and soft, but he just sobbed gasped for air the whole hysterical crying it was horrible and there was nothing I could do but try and hold him till he calmed down poor baby never ever going to do the cry it out technique never never again
??? can it take 12 hours for a specific food to affect him and give a belly ache, he had a little mashed carrot, broc, peas, bean, corn mix at the lunch midday the amount of the last 3 was minimal in the mix
They were really positive about the daycare (they use it) as theyve all got kids (one of them goes to the playgroup Ive been thinking of going to so she's convinced me to do that too) and theyre outgoing and fun like me. I havent felt so, normal I guess, since before we moved to Perth. Ive been invited to another party (Crystal and Linen) tonight so I told Ry he'll have to put J to bed because Im not going to be rude and I like going out. Im even going to host my own Mary Kay party when MIL comes over. Things might just be looking up for me now!
it was horrible and there was nothing I could do but try and hold him till he calmed down poor baby never ever going to do the cry it out technique never never again
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