Wow - that is great Shell - what I was going to go to here was a woman who has her own business helping with baby routines/sleeping etc, but she does let the baby cry - she sounded a bit strict on the phone so I havn't done it yet - don't think I will as I don't want to go down that path...I am slowly getting around to where she doesn't need the boob to resettle and also trying to get her out of our bed - between DH snoring and Rylee grunting I dont' get much sleep...