Rainy I have never even been to Vic. If you do have your DH there then your doula should be able to guide him and show him the best way to support you. My DH felt useless too, I wish we had of stuck with our doula but decided not to since my sisters were going to try and make it up for L's birth.

Pregpan maybe you will be able to spot Clare when you see her before actually being introduced.

Cally we need to do some yard work to perhaps I could borrow your DH lol???

Better run and make sure L isn't getting into to much trouble.