Pregpan, I have thought about some herbal treatments, but it will have to wait until next time I am near a city - we live in the sticks and would be lucky to see a chinese person let alone a chinese doctor lol. I don't think N is behind, we just went to the first birthday party of a commando crawling 1 year old and N can do lots of other things that W can't. I know three cycles isn't that long, just that I had planned to have them close together and now they will already be further apart than I wanted so each month just stretches it out more IYKWIM