How exciting Clare, do you think your meeting went well? Fill us in on all the details.
G, When Lindsay had a bad dose of gastro/vomiting DH had arranged some casual work in town for that week ages before he got it and while he was at work I was at home cleaning up spew and poo all day and he would knock off work and have a few beers with the other blokes before coming home. By the end of the week I cracked it with him and told him he had to pull his finger out his ass and give me a hand because I'd had a gutfull of him being able to just stay in town and have beers instead of coming straight home, and this was before anyone really had mobiles, so I couldn't call him either. Not that I begrudge him having a beer, but he knew that Lindsay was sick and still stayed away kwim? When he finished the work he had on he did help me do all the washing that had built up and cleaned the house for me and that. Alister has been having a shower with me a lot lately and I don't hold him at all - I just put him on the floor and he's happy to sit or stand there. Don't worry about his weight as he will put it back on once he's well and eating properly again.

