Hi Rainy .. Jack has the approx the same routine as Lewis does now (his day nap can alter but I always try to put him down at the same time so that he gets used to that time being bed time) & it suits him. All I can suggest is to try it & if it doesn't work, alter it. .. MIL's - tell me about it!! Wen we saw the family the other week my ex barely acknowledged me cos his mum & sis were present, then wen he ran into just him at the shops, he gave me a cuddle & kissed my cheek cos he was alone. I have this feeling that they are holding him back. We've been getting on really well lately & we are both greatly looking forward to his visit (arriving tomorrow). Tho a friend said he mite of acted diff cos his family has a way of reading into things & twisting fables esp, when it comes to me.

My house is a diaster zone & right now, I am too buggered to do anything about it. Mite have some energy later though, hopefully! I'm not exhausted enof tho to go to bed / sleep ...