Yep, life or plat membership will get you a spunky av of your very own.

Wow, that's very exciting about having a definate time to start the baby makin' LOL. So what names does he have on his list so far? I wish my DH were that keen.

H, I don't think it's wrong to ask and to also be selective about who you've given the card to. Its so hard to know what to get someone for their wedding when they've been together so long already kwim? so this gives people the chance to still *give* you something they know you really want. The one time I refused to do the wishing well thing was for a friend of ours and his bride to be asked that we all chip in so they could buy bricks for the house SHE wanted built and we didn't cause we hated her and had a feeling she wouldn't be sticking around. Unfortunately we were right and she didn't stick around, but at least our friend has a pretty flash house to live in now LOL.

Katie, I've been like that too lately with the posting, so you're not alone.