Andie I was just going to say the exact same thing to Arte about the dog story. Theres a very sad example of what can happen unfortunately. Glad you had a good time at the beach the boys looked like they enjoyed it. Did you see my pics on FB as we went this morning too! Love the beach, wish I lived a bit closer to it like I used to when I was at home with the parents but coastal living is too expensive for us lol.

Rainy & Pregpan - Wow I have the McLaren vogue (good old mum got it for me) as well, its a great stroller, but I was just looking into a smaller one for travelling (going away in March) & also I have a new car with a gas tank in the back lol, so my space is limited & I saw that the Quinny Zapp folds up really small. I've also just discovered one called the quicksmart too....decisions!

Pregpan - Why is it that swimming really knocks them out I wonder?!

Arte - Thats dissapointing about the in laws, but I know how you feel.

Leemar - HAVE A GOOD TIME!!! I am so jealous I would love to go to the US. Sorry to hear about that bruise sounds terrible poor little mite.

Clare - In a way I must admit we want as much a gap as possible between M & the next one, as I dont know how I would handle it iykwim. Sometimes I struggle with M, I know we all have our moments, but I know what I am like & I just think I need to space it all out a bit for myself. So I get where you are coming from, even though I havent been down the pnd track I'm terrified of it. I feel for you big time. So did you have depression during the pregnancy? Did the pethadine shot play a part in it or were you just using that as an example of you feeling as if you didnt have control in the labour room & that was a trigger? Sorry if this is all too personal & bringing up bad stuff from the past, ignore me if so!

As we are off again in March on our honeymoon, I've been thinking of how I am going to keep an 18 month old little explorer under control on the 5 hour flight to KL & then shortly after the 1 hr flight to Langkawi, the second flight shouldnt be too bad. So I was wondering about phenergan, but after the research I did today I wont be going down that track. What do you think of using pain stop? I know that has a bit of a sedative in it. Otherwise maybe Brauers calm? I know I am getting ahead of myself a bit here, but I am starting to worry as she was a handful on the way to & from Melbourne, DP & I almost had a domestic at one stage hehe.