Thanx everyone.. Am still trying to bf him at different times through the day but having a lot of trouble attatching him and keeping him there.. Hoping to hear back from the aba councellor today hopefully she can organise someone for me (she wasn't 100% sure) I wish id done it earlier when I still had more milk.. I do still have milk easily available (starts coming as soon as I squeeze) but its slower flowing and I don't seem to be letting down like I was before so that makes him fuss a bit.. Hopefully we can get there tho.. Have cracks on both sides now which is no fun but still have hope have read stories where people have had extreme nipple damage and still managed to get through it and successfully bf its just getting his attatchment sorted out so he's getting enough because not only was he not gaining weight he wasn't weeing or pooing much at all so I've been told by aba as well as the gp he definately wasn't getting enough.. Dh will support me in whatever I chose but he's quite clear in his opinion that we should just bottle feed him which makes it hard.. He won't go against me in any decision I make just hard knowing he dosnt agree with me on something I think is so important...