Forgot to say, that's on a good day. Other days he can be awake every 1.5-2 hours from 3am onwards, by the time I feed him, get him settled, pump etc, I only get about 30 mins sleep in between. Usually on a day that we have to go out, so I can't catch up with a nap. Some days he wants to play at 4am. Other times he is so restless I put him in his electric swing, and sleep on the couch. Still other days, he just wants to be held, cuddled, bounced & rocked, and I am so sleepy and my arms are falling off... Not that I can complain tho!

Rosey, maybe there is one more persistent soul just waiting its time is it possible to postpone the decision for a while? In my family, it was Mum who had the op. She had it reversed a few years later, and had more children. Not sure if it can be reversed for guys tho?