Thanks TT, that is encouraging. I read quite a bit about attachment parenting before he was born, but because bfeeding and co-sleeping didnt work for us, I always wondered if he had a secure attachment. Plus he is so friendly and will go to anyone. So I'm actually enjoying his clingyness and that he wants to be near me. He's such an awesome little person, who wouldn't?

Better days yesterday & today, making sure he can be near me & see me, and make lots of time for play. Really enjoying it. Despite MIL saying it'll "make things harder later."

So... If he sleeps in our bed, he'll still learn to sleep on his own, right? 4am he decides he's had enough of his cot. It takes an hour to get him settled again.

What is everyone doing for sleeping arrangements? Cots, bed sharing, etc? Any bubs in their own room yet?