Wow OP that's great. Give Heaven's wee ones loads of hugs and kisses from me.

DS still isn't giving up the day sleeps yet. He just can't quite make it through the day without a sleep - but he's sleeping a little better at night (oh I bet I just cursed myself.) Some interest in toilet training. He has his days when he gets the potty seat on the toilet, sets up his little step and will sit on the toilet, telling me to go away, then annouce he's done a poo/wee when he's been there long enough, insists he puts on undies and then will go down the other end of the house and 5-10 minutes later wees in his underpants. So I'm not really sure what to do, except maybe keep talking to him about feeling the urge to go to the toilet and wait.

I'm feeling so stressed about the whole TT issue. I have no idea how to do it, should I wait, should I just stay home for three days and nag him to death to go to the toilet? I've got no idea, and it seems like there is a thousand ways to do it, and yet if he's not understanding the urges, I'm not sure how to progress. UGH! I want to be an ostrich and stick my head in the sand.