Thanks ladies, I feel a bit better this afternoon. He had a good sleep in his bassinet and I got to lie on the couch and read a book, bliss!! We're at the end of a wonder week so hopefully he starts to improve again soon.

I hand express before feeding him but might try expressing properly so dh can feed, thanks Maruschke. I was hopeless at expressing with DS1 (which I found bizarre given how much milk I had???) so have been assuming it would be the same this time round but I should give it a go!