Welcome back PZ Sounds like Isla's doing fantastically!

I don't know how you did the single parent gig for so long, I applaud you. When DH was working 12 hour days I was exhausted. Bathing Annabelle, showering, doing anything at all without help took so much planning! I was always so happy to see DH at the end of the day.

I hope your DH moving in goes smoothly for you all

As for contraception, I'm on the mini pill. I actually find no af very strange, when I wasn't ttc it was always nice to have that monthly confirmation that I wasn't utd. Now I just have to trust that it's working!