Why do the books say no dummy? its meant to help bring down SIDS risks? and I have never come across anybody whos teeth have been damaged by a dummy. Why are people so anti them?
If you have a colic or fluxy baby I dont know how you could get by without them!

Good to hear your back is getting better.
Im so jealous about the cats. I am desparate to get a cat but dh is really firm on not til baby is older