kaydee - i still have sore bb, especially if william is being silly and wont attach properly, it especially frustrating at 9pm. my right was cracked from early on and is still trying to heal. congrats on giving it a second go after having trouble your first time around. just ignore others opinions, everyone has their own ideas of whats best.

i think breast is best but if you cant do it, it is better the child has a mother who is calm feeding them than one who is struggling with bf.

emzi - no routine here, figure he is still basically a newborn. maybe after 6 weeks i will start to try a routine, and get him to sleep in bassinette.

i have now expressed twice to try to lower the pressure, otherwise it chokes him. so will probably do it once a day, in the morning. and slowly get a freezer stock so if i am really tired dh can feed him and i can rest.

afm - so nervous about next week, will be all on my own as dh goes back to work. will see how sleep goes.