teresa, I'm the same. I feel a bit shy around people I don't know, and I'm always paranoid that I won't be able to settle Cameron in front of a big group of mums whose bubs are behaving like angels!! I've heard that you can take little ones to physio early on, I have a friend whose little boy had a weak neck and she ended up taking him to an osteopath I think.....I must give her a call and find out more info.