Sararose - We shower with all our kids We rarely use the bath lol. I'm generally the one that showers with them when they are really little because I get nervous when hubby does. I'm sure he won't drop them... but I still get nervous, hehe. At least when I hold them I know that I always have the held really securely. Arlia is starting to really enjoy the shower. She loves being held upright on my chest so the water runs down her back, but especially likes it when I let her have a breastfeed in the shower

lct - You are so brave!!! It took me 2.5 years to leave my DS with my parents for the first time! I have a little it of separation anxiety when it comes to the kids hehe.