I thought I would give C a go at self settling after reading of your success Buffy... No such luck here. Oh well...

In answer to your question in my IL's... SIL (who lives up the coast) and I did IVF at around the same time last year. I miscarried as she was starting her cycle and she was less then sympathetic. She had 2 mc's before I announced my pregnancy with Connor and and hasn't spoken to me since. Her and bil came down for Christmas lunch where she avoided and ignored me in my own home... Needless to say I'm less then impressed with the effort that has been made towards Connor - none - and I am not happy about being made to play happy families on the weekend...