Heh, we did have a bit of wandery hands not so long ago, but with the stitches I was still a bit tender and not keen on doing much more than that. The occasions when I've had enough sleep to be getting frisky I've remembered we'd need to go get condoms or something as I am completely paranoid about contraception....with good reason considering past history.

Amanda honey, I'm sorry your husband is being so completely disrespectful to you. You don't deserve that. Hopefully you can both sit down calmly and talk things through - deliberately attacking you is really not healthy.