Bwahaahahaha AM, he was probably thinking to himself "gee that feels better, glad that's gone!"

DH and I make sure to talk about things that are happening, spend time together once Mister is in bed and try to have a little cuddle before sleep time. It is hard, but making your partnership just as much a priority as looking after bub makes a huge difference. And the two things can be done at the same time - DH will sit and talk to me while I feed Alex, or I'll chat with DH while he's in the shower with him as I'm getting nappy and pj's etc ready.