Rainy - Oh thats a relief. Its so scary isnt it, M had a nasty fall a couple of months ago and I was so worried too.

Trill - I feel physically sick to know they found that poor girl dead. What is wrong with the world, two years old, I would just want to curl up and die her poor family. Was thinking the same about the MIL situation, but I am going to watch myself this time & just be thankful that they want to look after her.

Thanks girls for all your advice. Feeling much better about it now. Pretty dissapointed though, was looking forward to a nice family holiday. We will go again.

Re the ENT, I am glad that she mentioned this as we have had way too many ear infections. It seems she gets over one and another pops up. DH was speaking to his mum & when he was M's age he actually had bad ear problems too, always getting ear aches etc, so he had a little op & MIL says it made a huge difference. As for speech, she has a few words but I've just started realising that she isnt progressing with her speech as much as she probably should be at this age, & to have the dr confirm that today was good. So glad to be seeing an ENT in a few wks