We had to bribe too MD. The shame of it. Whatever works i say! Speaking of shame, i reckon it will only take a kid poo'ing at kinder in front of their mates once or twice before they wise up. As soon as they see everyone else doing it on those cool kid sized toilets then maybe that will help.

Thanks for all thinking of my bro. Still unconscious/semi conscious. Stirs occasionally, mumbles a bit and then passes out again. Tox screen all normal. No overdose. So no closer to finding out what the hell is going on. It has to be some funky kind of drug interaction as he passed all the epilepsy tests. I just wish they'd find out before it happens and no-one finds him.

Cally- funny you say that about the midnight waking. Ever since i woke Lulu to put her on the toilet she wakes at about that time now and comes into my bed. I don't mind but she kicks like a mule and i get a shocking nights sleep. DH has taking to going to her bed, so it's a bit better, but man she is a shocker to co-sleep with. She's also become really needy at bed time. I have to lie with her until she goes to sleep. If i talk to her about me just going to the next room where she can still see me tears well up and she says "But mummy, i just love you so much and want you to stay: How can i saw no to that?! I was going to try a sticker chart to see if i could get her to go to sleep by herself. Any other ideas welcome.