Its a tricky one to know what to do MD. I never used the pullups with any of mine - if they were still wetting overnight I used a nappy. I've heard mixed stories about them though - some say the pullups are a godsend and that they will learn to be dry in their own time, and others have said that it can make them a bit lazy and they know they will work like a nappy. But I don't reckon E is lazy. If she isn't waking when she wets then maybe she's one of the kids who will just get dry in her own time kwim? have you tried waking her during the night to take her to the loo? When mine were still transitioning from nappies at night to pants, I would cut back drinks an hour before bedtime, take them to the loo at bedtime and then again when I went to bed to make sure they had an empty bladder for the rest of the night. We didn't have many accidents at all doing that. Is E a heavy sleeper? I know one of my brothers had problems with wetting for ages because he was such a heavy sleeper that he just could not wake himself up to go.

And I totally agree on the support network we've created for ourselves. Honestly, you guys and the mods are the only reason why I keep coming back here. I've just outgrown it now and if it wasn't for the friendships I have with you all I don't think I'd come here as much, if at all. When I see people post that they are leaving because they don't 'fit' I totally understand that, but the friendships is what keeps me here. Yeah I may have outgrown it, but I wont have the contact with you all if I go. I can totally see us sitting in a park or a cafe and talking about the exact same things we talk about on here.

Well this maths exam is doing my head in! I would gladly swap this exam for a 4hour exam solving maths problems LOL. I've had too much on to be able to study properly for it too. I've been listening to lectures all morning and madly making notes, but it just isn't gelling! So I came on here for a quick break. Even if I fail the exam I will pass the subject, but that just seems like taking the easy way kwim?