MP We have very similar issue re:lying. I think it is an age thing, they begin to realise that telling stories can get good reactions which makes them feel good as well as telling stories to avoid trouble. Sometimes i laugh and say " I know you're just tricking aren't you?" And she laughs and changes her story. I tell her how important it is to tell the truth and i often talk about the story of the boy who cried wolf, when he told little lies no one believed him when he needed them to. And i try really hard not to get cross if she finally tells the truth, we just talk about it. Sas had reflux, but i saw a paed who basically made me feel like a whinging mum. She was a difficult baby, i had to hold her upright for an hour after a feed in the night, or she'd spew her whole feed and cry, but she only screamed when lying down, if i held her she was fine. P cried no matter what. L was a dream baby, lucky i had her first. lol
Cally- That story is so sad. People really do underestimate the power of water. How's the running going? I reckon a lizard on the excercise mat is reason enough to roll it back up!!!
Poor Erin, Arte. Hope she stops chucking. Nothing worse than a sick baby.
Cass- Pics of the party??? I wanna see the toadstool cake! :-)
I'm here girls, just a bit snowed under with work and study deadlines and procrastinating my ample butt off re the latter.
Gorgeous gorgeous birthday party for Missy E today - hired a jumpy castle with a HUGE tinkerbelle on the front LOL. It was a practically perfect party, cake turned out fabulous and very pretty, only problem was when E had a meltdown instead of blowing out the candles. Poor darling. Too many people standing around expectantly. Anyway she had a ball and the weather was *perfect* and all the kids played beautifully together. Can you tell I'm pleased with how it turned out?
Arte - aw, I'm so sorry to hear E is unwell. It might be worth getting her checked by a dr as they can go downhill fast at this age. xxx
JM, so good to hear from you, I have wondered many times how you're getting on back in the jungle. Reflux is hard work. We had good results seeing a paediatric osteopath so maybe that's something you could look into when you're back in Nov. Also, could you speak to a pharmacist and find out whether they could give you the stuff to make up the suspension yourself in small batches?
Have been reading but v tired after all the jumpy castle fun today so will BBL when I need another good dose of procrastinatoring.
JM - Hope you can sort out the reflux, I have heard it is hard work!! I am loving your pics of the girls on fb.
Ginger - Yes I know exactly what you mean about feeling confused and wondering whether to go for that third. If your DH gets the snip then you can just move on and forget about it. I am in the same frame of mind atm, my DH doesnt want anymore either. But I am unsure. If he gets the snip he has made the decision for me and its all good hehe
Arte - I hope miss E is better soon!!
MP - The party sounds like it was fantastic, you went above and beyond! Also the holiday to Hawaii would have been so great, I am glad the boys were good on the flight. Yes I am still breastfeeding, but she is fast losing interest and we are down to just a few feeds per day. I am not worrying about it these days
Cass - Hehehehe your DH sounds like he was having a good old time, glad he got a hang over though, pay back! The job you are about to undertake sounds absolutely amazing and fascinating and right up my alley, I would love to hear all about it.
OMG Cass! I would have tore him a new one for doing that! He definitely does owe you bigtime! But the party and naming cermony sounded just wonderful.
Cally, I don't understand why people don't use lifejackets either - its no different to wearing a seatbelt as far as I'm concerned. When we go water skiing the kids know they are not allowed in the boat without a jacket on and we only go to an enclosed lake! Heck we don't even let them swim in the lake without a jacket on. It is such a tragedy though and I'm sure the families will be beating themselves up over the 'should haves' too. And using a Koko Black voucher is as good a reason as any to have to go back to canberra LOL.
Arte, that is terrible for little E. It is hard though to keep them away from it when you have sick older kids. HOpefully it passes quickly for her.
MD, your party sounded like so much fun! The kids would die of excitement if we ever hired a jumping castle LOL!
I think the lying is definitely an age thing - the girls started at about this age too and I would just call them out on the fib and tell them I knew it wasn't true. I also told them that they had to think about whether things were real or not before they told people and told them the whole boy who cried wolf thing LOL. L never did it though and A hasn't started yet.
Took the kids to the movies yesterday with Mum. She took the girls and A to see The Smurfs, which they loved and L and I saw Red Dog. If you haven't seen it you just HAVE to! It is a brilliant movie - made us laugh and made us cry! Best Aussie movie in years. I will have to get it on DVD when it comes out because DH would love it too.
I know the passes are good - I was expecting far worse LOL! It was so hard having to fit in prac and do them though, because I was so out of whack from being out of home every day for the month I found it impossible to stay on top of all the uni work too. I'm worried how it will go next year because I will have the extra subject as well.
Hi girls
OK you will all think i am CRAZY but i am thinking of starting some post grad study... Am I nuts? i would only do 1 or 2 subjects a semester....
I thought that may be the case... but I think I might do it anyway...
I am thinking of studying in a new area - nutrition and 'wellness' - been a long time passion and thinking of some new career pathways.
the corportate world is amazing for me and i love it and have amazing opps... but the thought of the pressure i am under for 30+ yrs.... so opening doors perhaps on some new areas.
In the meantime i think is is fascinating area to study so thinking i might apply and see how i go with a couple of subjects and take it from there.\
then i freak out - 2 kids, full time work and this.... but i somehow manage to cram more and more and i would like a new dimension to life too.
hmmmmmmmmmm
MP, we've always known you've got a superwoman cape stuffed into your designer handbag! Go for it . Especially loving the 'new pathway' angle. You'll never know if you don't try it.
MP - well it's certainly worth giving it a shot. At least you know what you want to do, I'm having a bit of a self confidence crisis at the moment and wondering if I want to do this for the rest of my life, but don't have any idea of what else I would do. Doesn't help getting back to work after yesterday and having every single decision questioned....
We went to see a 9 day old bub yesterday - so gorgeous. K was so keen to hold her and gave her such nice cuddles.
Cally, bummer you are being questioned at work. I would struggle not to cry (stress reaction).
Trill, how is lambing going?
I just saw Ella has posted in her belly buddy thread, hope she doesn't mind me saying but she had baby Christopher last wednesday, 10lb 1oz. Congratulations Ella!
Arte - There was a lot of frustration, I got pretty close to crying when I got home. This morning I woke up early and it was all I could think about and couldn't get back to sleep. Thankfully today was better.
CONGRATULATIONS ELLA!!!
DD has gone back up to Canberra to go to see Justine Clarke tomorrow with cousin and my parents. She left the cutest message on our answering machine to say that she was at Granny's house (DH met them halfway for the transfer)
well, i ended up being induced (very grudgingly) last Wed at 10 days overdue with apparently "low" fluid levels. the labour was fast and hard, but at least it was over quickly!! i managed to go without any pain relief (which was my main concern against being induced - had heard it was much more painful) so that was a relief... we all got a bit of a fright when we saw the baby though - he was 10lbs 1oz, and none of us had suspected that he'd be anywhere near that big!! we named him Christopher Richard (Richard is my FIL's name). he is very cuddly and easy going, but is an absolute pig and is always looking for a nipple. the poor thing gets NO attention with the other two demanding so much time, but i'm sure he will know no better and turn out just fine!! both of the older kids think they're the bees-knees of parenting, and need to be watched very intently, or they will pick him up, move him around, incorporate him as a prop in one of their games, etc...
i haven't read through the posts to see what everyone is up to - i'll try and catch up over the next couple of days...
Congratulations Ella on the birth of Baby Christopher!!
Cally: man, days like those at work are crapulent to say the least (and no pun intended lol). i reckon a holiday will be needed soon so that you can rest and get away from any negative nancys out there ...in fact, let's do what MP did but on a BB sept 07 scale and lets all go to Hawaii!!!! ohhhhh that would be so awesome lol.
MP: crazy but worth it! chasing your dreams will always be worth it IMHO. so i say go for it! just take a minimum of subjects and you'll get there!
Trill: i want to take L to see the smurfs. i would love to see Red Dog but unfortunately i missed the mums and bubs session
Hi Everyone
Thanks for the advice – decided to give it a go so I am applying and will do 2 subjects in the first semester and see how I go. Am quite excited to just learn something new and also about the pathways it may open.
Cally – I know how demoralising that can be. I think we all have those days and the sleepless nights that follow. I think women take that stuff a lot harder in the workplace than men would. I try to keep that in mind when I am replaying work convos etc over and over.
Cass – I meant to say congrats on your first pay check!!
MD – the party sounded fantastic. Am liking the idea of hiring a jumping castle!
Ella – congratulations! That is so exciting and I am glad the birth went well. He sound divine! I know J gets so much less attn than N did – I can only imagine how self sufficient a number 3 would need to be!!!
J came home early yest w a temp and was kinda whingey… but no other symptoms, ate dinner etc…. hmmm… dropped him at crèche (with a lot of mummy guilt) but we will see how he goes. N had his friend sleep over again last night – soooo cute! It’s pretty easy having her over (they both went to holiday prog today) and its so lovely that he can have her sleep over now. As I plaited her hair this morning I kind of wished I had a daughter….
PS Cass - sometimes they have early sessions (like 930am) - I sometimes went with J at that time, no one was there.... and if he got loud i took him outside.
Congratulations Ella! I too find the 'help' from my 2 and 4 year old interesting?! I find my baby gets more attention becasue i have to hold her all the time to protect her from the other two.
Good on you MP, i say go for it, not mad at all. :-)
MP- MY FB status was referring to a couple of nasty women i have the pleasure of living with. This morning as i went for a walk with the girls i can across a group of women leaving a 'playgroup' This one woman who for some reason doesn't like me has invited everyone else (about 6 people) and not me to play group. Didn't even let me know it was on. She has done it before though, i shouldn't be surprised. She is a nasty piece of work. Not sure what i ever did wrong, but she doesn't like me, clearly! The other day the ladies all had cards and i wasn't invited. Apparently someone thought i'd be too busy with the baby. :eyeroll: Who wants to play canasta with a bunch of old ladies anyway right?? Who needs friends when you have a computer? I'm not the only one who they do this to apparently. But i don't have the energy to waste on it. I'll just stick to myself and my new fitness plan.
Last edited by Junglemum; October 6th, 2011 at 02:01 PM.
I'm sure it would only be because of their own issewes and not because you did anything wrong.
Who needs friends when you have a computer? 
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