I love that Trill. its totaslly what i am about. having 2 boys it is about role modelling to them that any person can achieve anything - it isnt gender based etc etc. i can go on for hours about that stuff. N's teachers are doing a study into it all and is is fascinating. they mentioned to me that he has the least gender stereotyped ideas they have seen - music to my ears i was v proud
Cass - I had no ideas about your eyes. your background/story never ceases to amaze me.
Cally - i am sure the grommets will do wonders. isnt that the same story as with Lewis?

Arte - your little E and how wonderful she is is what made me even think about no 3. i didnt think i could cope with another sleep devil - but now i am convinced no 3 will be an angel! i am rpetty damn clucky now that Dh has opened that door again. it wont be for a while though, dh needs to srt his business out first so i can have a reasonable amount of time off (ideally more than I had with the boys)