She gets a smartie when she uses the potty. She objects because she doesn't want to be a big girl. She likes her little lifestyle of being a baby and having everything done for her. She would rather squeal and scream for half an hour rather than admit that she can put her own shoes on (which she does all the time at kindy!). She is playing us and wants to stay on easy street lol. She has a (teeny tiny) bit of motivation atm since E is starting to surpass her in things.