Phyrephly it sounds like you have every right to be angry with him, that's just not on! My dh was under the impression he would have time to renovate etc on his 'time off' and I let him believe that... Thankfully he's stepped up as soon as he saw the reality of life with a newborn, especially with our demanding feeding schedule. I certainly would not have coped with doing it all myself. I feel for you and I know from experience how much harder it is when you have a lot of pain... Grow up Phyrephly's dp!