Oh I feel better I'm not the only one who's baby seems emotionally unstable lol yes I totally forgot how challenging the newborn stage is. We are getting there though they'll be months old before we know it and easier to read.

Tubbles when Bub was born the midwife said he had a very mild posterior tongue tie. So mild it wouldn't need any fixing. He feeds well, no nipple damage and can poke his tongue out. BUT he has symptoms of a baby with a tongue tie like all the farts, his latch is only ok, he clicks intermittently when feeding, and leaves me with lipstick shaped nipples. The farts don't smell but seems to pain him so that was why I wanted it checked. I'll ask the GP at his 6wk needles next week and I'll ask my midwife when I see her next week too. But I'm feeling more confident that it's not a tongue tie, he's kid a farty bum and it will settle with age.
Strange that they told you not to block feed... I do 1 boob per feed. I did it with my first too and it works well for me. If his farts are smelly maybe go back to one boob and see if it changes? That's interesting let me know how it goes.

I asked DP today, now that both our boys are here and settled in, is he still sure he's done having kids. He thought on it for a little bit and said he just hates the pregnancy bit. I do too, it comes between us. But he's totally going to be onboard for another. I don't think I'm done either...