Hi, I have just had the time to sit down and find this group. I had my third son on the 21st, Ryder Michael. My second son is the same age as your daughters, he is two on the 16th of March. He seems to be coping well, my 3.5year old is taking a while to adjust. Just trying to give them as many cuddles as I can. I have found that getting them to help is heaps of fun for them. Mine love to be helpful and get mummy the wipes or a nappy. Congratulations on both of your VBACs too.