Hi girls,

another one who's been MIA - i have been reading just not replying - DD2 is so full on that i literally don't have 10 mins to myself unless its at night when its bed time

I'm glad to read that im not the only one having issues with a baby that does not want to sleep during the day...DD2 is fine overnight, im getting 4-8hr stretches at night, but during the day she is literally attached to me (and I know BellyBelly promotes babywearing etc) but i can't stand it - i feel like i have no personal space - i know she's still little and needs me, but its a huge shock after DD1 who was great sleeper during the day but terrible at night! - i just dont know which one is worse

shan i hear you on feeling like you're doing it on your own...my DH is a shiftworker so he's home during the day, but im on my own from 2.00pm each day (except Sundays and Mondays when he does 2 12 hour shifts from 7am-7pm both days) with the two girls and it is really really hard dealing with a newborn that won't settle and a toddler who wants to play, i feel like im neglecting my DD1 which is breaking my heart

i hope everyone else is coping as best they can