Poor Kylz. I hear you hun. It's terrible when you can't work out what is wrong. At our paediatrician appointment on Monday he diagnosed R with Reflux and recommended I use a Anti Reflux formula and gave us some medicine which he said wouldn't kick in for a few weeks. Anyway, I am using NAN AR by Nestle for R and he has been a different baby so far. I know this doesn't help you right now, but it is something that you could look into.

Hugs to you. Hopefully J settles for you soon.