Hey Mel...sounds like persistance will be the key here - she's probably just pushing because she knows you'll give in!! (no offence of course!!) Have you tried distracting the girls with other things - such as let's go and do this first and then it will be snack time or 30min until lunchtime why don't you go and get some stories or colouring to do until then?? etc...Or even letting them know what the plan is for the day in advance - after brekky we're going to have some play time or art and craft and then we'll have a snack...then they know what's coming??? Just some ideas - I'm sure you'll find something that works for you guys!!
I hear you on the toys! I still haven't completely finished sorting out their stuff. I've got homes for most of everything but I still have a pile that needs to either be given away, thrown out, ebayed or we find a home for...They tend to play with most of their things if I draw their attention to it but when their room's a mess then they just don't know what to play with!

Speaking of which, I may go and have a sort out now while Ethans asleep and the boys are absorbed in playhouse disney on the computer!!

Chat later!