Hi Hannah - oh no I expected it to be hard work but still doesn't prepare you. I wasn't completely oblivious, was just trying to be positive. I just didn't like people constantly telling me and being so negative that's all. This friend of mine isn't even expecting it....that probably doesn't make sense, you'd need to know this person to see what I mean. LOL

Besides, even though it's hard at times I feel pretty good and wouldn't change it for anything.