Lilima - you will be fine with uni. Just make sure you set aside enough time to do your work and make sure your DH knows he has to help out and support you!

With kinder I think I am just assuming she will be ready and if she isn't then we just do 2 years of 4yo kinder. At this rate her vocab is going great, 6 word sentences and new words every day and she can tell me exactly what she wants. She is counting well and starting to do her alphabet and recognises most colours and shapes. So developmentally I think she is fine and her social skills are well on the way as she can make friends, plays with other children and can share (most of the time). DD1 was 4 when school started and turned 5 in the first week - she is going well so far and seems to be very much on par with her peers so if DD2 is similar then it should be ok.

Toilet training is not even on the cards at our place. Miss J will usually tell me if she is wet or has done poos but not always. Sometimes she will run and sit on the potty and then run back to me saying "I did it Mummy!" but nothing is in the potty when I go and look. So I don't think she has the idea yet. She always goes into the toilet with DD1 so she knows what to do but she isn't ready to do it herself yet. Hopefully not too much longer though...