Det - sorry to hear your mum and dad split.

Thanx for the book info - might have a look in the library/bookstore for the JP books.

Alex doesn't sleep during the day unless he's on me, so I don't know anything about sleep cycles - night time he sleeps with 0-4 wakes (depending on some magical thing I haven't figured out yet). So to get him to nap during the day, I have to cuddle him - I've found if I don't do this, then he doesn't sleep at night.

I'm going to find a new mums and bubs group - I've been hanging onto this group to see if its going to improve but alas no luck...

sorry I'm a slacker with no real personals.. just feeling really blah at the moment.