oh dusty, big hugs hun. It's been such a journey for you and your dh. I saw your recent pics of Freya on FB, she is gorgeous. What kind of support are you getting? Is there a support group or something where you are that you can attend? I've never had it, so don't know very much about it sorry.
A toy box thingy is a container of toys from 6 months + range. Depending on where you get it from, it ranges from $40-$100.
We had a heap of wooden toys that I've bought over the years for the girls when they were babies, and I'd boxed it all up and MIL thought that box was for charity, and threw it all away!!! There would have been $200+ worth of toys in there. I'm still really bitter about it. So we now have to replace all our baby toys