Ahh, just when you think you have them settled... you take them off the boob and they wake on up! Sigh... back in the bouncer for you, little X man!

Emma - I think you asked about abdo separation? I had a big split with DD, about four fingers' width - so that's probably about 6cm like you. Go see a physio - they will give you some exercises to start them knitting back together. My physio told me it was important if I was planning to have another bub close to DD, which we did.

Interestingly I don't have as much of a split this time around... so its not all bad for you

Dr T - you asked about pelvic floor? One good way to test whether you have any pelvic floor issues is to try and stop the flow when you are doing a wee, if you are able to then you do have some pelvic floor control! But don't try and do it more than once... apparently it can cause UTIs or something.

I thought my pelvic floor was ok-ish but then I had my 6wk post natal check on Fri and the GP said that I need to do my pelvic floor muscles as I have a slight prolapsed bladder She said its nothing to worry about but I need to get on top of it and be sure it doesn't develop into anything else...

Argh, gotta try and feed X some more... sigh... go to sleep, baby!