lol rump, I know what you mean about the ill fitting clothes! It's like we are too big to fit into normal clothes but too small for maternity clothes, and to think we've lost weight so why would we want to wear maternity clothes anyway?!

leigh - I've been using monkey doodlez AIO(small) and they seem to fit pretty well, as well as flanelette fitteds and fleece covers for the night times when Harlee sleeps longer.

cmar - how great is the fluff?!!?! when the mil comes over she tries forcing the sposies on me because I 'shouldn't make more work for myself' pfft! They are so easy to clean too, I thought it would be harder than this, but instead of taking a load of rubbish down to the bin 3 times a day, I just hang a small load of washing up. same hard work really! In the end they say it must have been mastitis that I had, it just took a while to go away, but I have been using heat compress before I feed and cold compress, or cabage leaves after I feed. It seems to work well when I can do that!

Well Im being treated to a massage today, I expressed my first lot of milk and got 80ml, I felt like a dairy cow, its only incase of emergency because the massage is in between feeds. My boobs have never felt so empty as I did it after a feed and it felt like I drained them of everything they had!
So is anybody doing this routine thing? Alot of people I talk to say I need to get into a routine. I didn't think that needed to happen?
The unwanted advice just keeps coming from everybody, Yes I have no idea what I am doing, but you dont need to tell me what to do!!!
And also does anybody have any tips for getting there little one to sleep? Harlee likes to have her 'wake time' from 12am to 2.30am and it is driving us insane, she wont let us just cuddle her in bed either, she wants to walk around and do things ..arg!!