Babies born~March 1st-15th 2008 #11

Thinking of you SJ. It's good that you asked for help from your GP and I hope that seeing the psychologist will help.

I quit my job today. My last day is Friday - so no TTC for me right now!

sj - big hugs to you hun.. so proud of you for taking the step. having been through depression and having to get referred, i know it's not easy. it's not easy admitting that you need see someone and it's not easy sitting w your gp and talking about it and doing the tests and knowing you need to see someone.
hope they psychologist will be able to help, but you've taken a big step already.
i have been the same, taking on other ppl's problems and always theirs seems more important than mine, and i try to go on thinking im ok. it doesnt matter etc.

take care, hun. be selfish and make it all about you. you matter most.

love you lots xoxoxoxo
if you need to talk at all, i can get online later tonight. xxoxoxo

:hug: SJ.
As Prama said, taking that first step & talking to your gp is a huge one, & very hard to do, so be proud.
You can come in here & winge or vent when ever you need to. Don't forget. We might not have magical things to make it all better, but we can listen. I haven't been posting in here much, but I'm still always on BB.
I hope the psycologist helps :)

Thanks guys...
happy birthday Bri

Thanks SJ.
We had a huuuuge day! A good friend of ours had a baby girl this morning too, so made it an even bigger day, coz I had to go see her.
So tiny at 6lb 9oz! No name yet.
Hope all is well xx

happy no.5 bri!! what a big girl you are!!!

yayyy

Hey SJ big hugs girl you know I understand..take care of you ok and well done on seeing the doc. We are here tot alk or on FB on phone if you want..remember that..sometimes it helps to talk to peeps outisde all of what is going on xxx

Hi Girls,
Wow its been quiet in here!!!

MJ has the chicken pox! she is coping really well and is just a bit more tired than usual, not too itchy, not too hot and not miserable - enjoying having the sofa bed out and the TV!!!!
Hopefully she stays happy for the next few days :crossfingers:
https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums...e-got-pox.html

Hope you are all well... how are you going Prama and Skye, hope the pg's are going well.
Bron, sorry i didnt reply, been flat out here, doing ok, thanks for carig hun, it was nice to get your message xo

Hi SJ. Poor MJ. Saw your status on Facebook. Hopefully she will make a speedy recovery and not get too many itchy bits :)

Poor little MJ! Hope she doesn't suffer too much. Bri had them at 6 months old. Have to say I think it was easier at that age, coz I could control the scratching better.
Is MJ vaxed against the pox? I didn't get Jesse done, but I think they've done the rounds here.
I'm lucky, Jaz is just a carrier. She brought them home from pre school & gave them to Bri, but never had them herself. I'm hoping Jesse's the same. Guess time will tell :)

All's going well with bub. Starting to get a good stock up of nappies....I don't wanna think about the amount spent, let alone let DH know, lol. Only gotta get a few more.
12 weeks to go today. Sounds like forever, but feel like its way too close. Specially when nappies are about all I have sorted!
We'll get there. Just gotta get Jesse a new seat (he's going into a booster) & bunks. He's still in the cot as a toddler bed, so gotta get it back soon.

How are you all doing with TT? We're back in nappies full time. I think the cold got too him & weeing more often. I'm gonna bring the potty out here again though & see how he goes since the last few days have been wierdly warm.

Not long til baby is here Prama! Must be getting uncomfortable. I'm going through hell with the SPD, but other than that feeling pretty good. Finally getting the house back in order after being so sick for the first 20 weeks & not being able to do much.

Hope everyone is good!
How's things going with the TTC SJ? Have you guys started again yet? Hope it all goes smoothly :)

Bout time we all caught up a bit! Been a bit slack lately!!!

oh sj, sorry to hear about mj having chicken pox. i guess the good thing is that she doesnt haven;t to worrya bout it again..

skye - wow 12 weeks!! i've 6 weeks or maybe 4 weeks. not long. bub is head down but not engaged yet. yes, very painful hips and so exhausted esp looking after lakshman..
plus, my pnd is back. ive been meaning to post but cant manage to.. i've just feeling so overwhelmed and lost.. we moved and tehre's still heaps to unpack and that gets me down. i keep t hinking the baby will be here and i'll still have to do things and never have rest. i just want to rest, im so so dead tired. i never had rest when lakshman was born, SINCE he was born. i just want to have some rest. sometimes i think the only time i will have rest, is when im dead...

sj - how are you going on the emotional side. im such a bad friend. ive been wanting to email you but just never did. im so sorry.

Are you finished up work yet Prama? If you are take your time? Is Poopy in daycare? If he is leave him there a few days a week, unpack slowly & relax when you can.
It does get easier hun. I know it doesn't feel llike it, but they won't be babies forever. Before you know it they'll never be home on the weekends & you'll miss being able to fit them both in your arms (or even wanting them in your arms! lol)
I feel the stress of not being ready too. I have a pram & cot, but I want a double pram & need to get Jesse out of the cot, otherwise someone's gonna have nowhere to sleep. Gotta organise the car seats, & this baby has no clothes yet...well only the few things I've picked up at vinnies. Nothing else. I'm stressing & DH keeps putting everything off. Its frusterating!!

Jaz's being a PITA lately. Just decided to develop the attitude of a 16 year old. Literally. I repeated some things to 17yo SIL who'e here for a week & she couldn't believe it...Jaz is saying the same things her friends say!!
A few weeks ago she couldn't find her shoes. I'm just so over looking for her that I told her I couldn't care less, & that if she didn't find them she'd have to go to school bare foot. Her reply... 'Fine, I'll just tell Mrs E you don't look after me properly!'
Then the usual threat to throw away everything on her bedroom floor if she didn't clean it... 'Do it. Waste your own money!'
So over it. But I'm at the point where I just laugh at her & ban her from something. We are going to the movies & the disco this week, she's already been banned from both & grounded, but she did put the dishes away twice & do a few other things for me...before back chatting me again... :rolleyes:

Bri's just Bri, lol. Jesse can't go anywhere without pointing out every single bike we pass. Motorbikes. On the trailor, on the road, green, red, black, Harleys... he spots EVERY one!! FIL was amused when he took them for a drive, lol.

Getting another car in a few weeks. Can't wait. Mines out of rego in 2 days, gotta find a cheapo to get us by til we can get the loan at the start of next month. Mine would cost too much to fix & re rego.

skye, i finish work next week. yeah, we'll leave poopy at day care for 3 days now, even after the baby's born, for both our sanities.. he can have his own space and time and i can give teh baby some one on one.

sorry to hear that you;re feeling it too. what is it about men and procrastinating!

sorry to hear abt jaz.. hope it';s a phase. but it doesnt help.. dunno what you can do. could you talk to her school and see if it's common at the school. is she picking it up from there?

take care hun..

Hi Guys,

Thanks for your well wishes :) MJ is doing really well with the CP, she is obviously itchy but not overly 'sick' with it which is great. She is a bit less tolerant of things and when i say no to something, its like the world has ended, she is a bit emotionaly, poor little thing!
Sorry i have been a bit wrapped up in my own stuff to come on here more often,, i have missed you guys, Prama OMG 4-6 weeks to go, where has that tie gone! So sorry that you are struggling with your PND, and i didnt even know that you were moving, what a time you have had. MAke sure that when you finish work you take some time to just sit and relax, you didnt really get that before poopy arrived, so make sure that you can slow down before this bubba arrives (did you find out what you are having? - dont know if i want to know what it is, i like suprises, but just wondered) Oh and dont apologise, you have so much on your plate, i knew you were here if i needed you, i think i just needed some space to et my head around stuff :) Which i am slowly doing ;)

Skye 11 weeks for you, wow the time has just flown!!!
Sorry to hear about Jaz, it must be so much more testing when you are pg to deal with all that attitude! I am not hoping MJ grows up too fast! Hope you get the car situation sorted soon.

MJ is fully toilet trained during the day and day time sleep, ony wearing a nappy for night time, whish is often wet, but freshly wet in the morning. am not going to bother tryng to get her out of that nappy until thje weather warms up! She only sits on the toilet, so it means that i am actively involved when she needs to go as she cant get on herself, but she comes running to me saying 'wee wee Mumma' and off we run, she is also now able to 'hold on' so if we are out and she needs to go she can get to a toilet without having an accident - it great not having to wash so many nappies all the time i can tell you!!!

Other than the CP, MJ is doing really well, she is so inquisitive and asks why and whats that often, she loves being active and it is getting harder to keep up with her, she has so much energy!
Gotta go to work, but will check in more reguarly

Not really TT here, but at daycare they're sitting Jazz on the toilet every nappy change and once in a while she does something.
She's going through a phase at the moment where she at least once a day gets really angry at us and screams "I dont want to" while kicking & hitting us. But the rest of the time I enjoy this age.

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