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  1. #1
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    Sep 2008
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    Bella - Arrrrrrgh re losing the post, did you want to cry? I have done that a few times and it is sooooo frustrating! Re the solids and pooping and belly adjusting, I think its very normal. I have had constipation issues on and off with Bailey since on solids and its just a matter of working out which foods their digestive system is ready for and which ones to hold off on - if it helps we have found banana, potato and weetbix a bit unfriendly so far. As far as I understand their digestive systems are still developing at this point so its all trial and error, sounds like you are doing a fab job to me!

    BG - Grrrr re people thinking they know best what to feed your baby, but I guess they were only trying to help. While Bailey would have LOVED the mashed veg, we have gone down the traditional baby food route, but with E being so happy with her BLS it wouldn't have seemed appetising to her at all, LOL that they sent you home with it!! My Dad gives Bailey stupid things to eat - crackers (prior to us introducing finger food) and dipped Bailey's dummy in his beer etc. Dad just laughs when I tell him off (which sh*ts me a bit to be honest) and gives me the old "oh it didn't do you any harm" line to which I replied "well it didn't necessarily do us any good either". I lightened the mood by saying "look, I respect how you raised us, after all I'm pretty damn great (sic), but respect that I might have different ideas and let me make these decisions as Bailey's Mummy" - he was pretty happy with that. Sometimes him living in Broome is good (eg otherwise Bailey would have his dummy soaked in honey, be eating peanuts and god knows what else hahahaha). Hugs re your Grandfather - no doubt he knows all about E in his after-life and thinks she is as sweet and adorable as we do!

    Hey Cathy - Hope Yassie's first day of high school went well! She looked lovely in the photo's you posted on FB - all your kids are gorgeous We have Bailey on 3 meals - Breakfast at 8am, Lunch at 12pm, Dinner at 5pm (with 4 milk feeds thrown in at approx 630-7am, 1030-11am, 3pm and bedtime). Bailey loves his solids, not so excited about the milk, but never has been keen, even when I was BF'ing. Oh I LOVE Seaworld, I wish I was going with you guys! When we went up in Nov it was my favourite theme park, the Sesame Street Beach ROCKS!! Have the greatest time!

    Amy - Hope P's temp is down, and that you get some sleep, I hear ya, last week I was in 'wreck' mode and I remember typing "This too shall pass" and it did - thankgod!! Don't worry about catching up on the persies, after a while you just need to start afresh and enter the convo LOL. Hope all the job hunting is going well too.

    Vic - you are so darn creative with your projects. I finished making Baileys pants, but alas they are quite big. The whole point of me making some was so he DIDN'T look like MC Hammer - but they are so baggy he just looks like he has "Hammer-pants' LOL. I have put them away for now, they should fit in a few months, so the last few months of his brace days. I can't be bothered making another pair, the project was harder than I thought, and although apart from my sizing it was a success, the time involved wasn't worth it! I should take a pic and add it to your photo-jects page for a laugh though hehehehe. Good luck with the ILs visit! Hope it all goes well

    Jacinta - hows work going? Have you done many shifts yet?

    Well we seem to be going well with finger food, our recent convo on what the babies were eating gave me some ideas and I gave Bailey a cruskit - Love it and ate the whole thing, a lamb chop on Australia Day - sucked all the flavour out of it and gummed a bit of the flesh, Watermelon - loved it but very slippery, strips of capsicum and cucumber - picked them up, put it to his mouth, screwed up his face then dropped it to the floor LOL. Still loving toast and rusks. What else should I try? He seems really good with chewing things first, luckily we haven't had any choking issues (yes, I just knocked on wood).

    DH suggested that when I am working from home later in the year that I have the MIL over to look after Bailey while I am working, and perhaps they can take him out. I reminded him that I am working from home so MUMMY can spend time with Bailey. I'm really not keen on the idea, I left it at a "We'll see". I think he feels bad as my Mum is our babysitter which I understand, but its not a competition, nor must we keep tabs on equalising time, each relationship is different. My Mum is having Bailey overnight as we have decided to give ourselves a night off - no special occasion, we have been meaning to do it for ages, then all the brace stuff happened, and christmas etc. So anyway I have booked us in for massages, made dinner reservations at our favourite Indian Restaurant, and my mum is super excited, I still feel a little guilty, but I will enjoy it. I miss him when I am away from him even for a few hours, and as I am soon going back to work I feel like I should be making the most of our time, but Mummy and Daddy need some time too! Bailey loves his Nan so he'll be happy as a pig in mud!

    Well I just ordered Baileys photo book. I have had to break it down into 0-6 Months, and 6-12 Months as the software I am using wont allow me to add all the extra pages I want (and I am NOT starting again with different software), so anyway, just ordered the 0-6 Month one as they had a special going, I cant wait to see it. I was re-living the first 6 months as I read through it all while spell checking and gosh its amazing how much has happened. How did we survive those sleep deprived first months?

    Better go, DH just drove in from band practise so might go say Hello

    Nay
    x

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    Jan 2006
    Brisbane south side
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    Hey Girls!

    Krystie & Bel: Oooh so looking forward to Seaworld..I haven't been in 15 years!!! I hope we don't get any rain from the cyclone up north though.

    Naomi: How much is it for a photo with the Seasame St person Naomi? Bailey's pic was sooo cute!! Yassie had a great first day of school! Small classes too. Ronan had a good day back too (year 6 this year). Little Laura will be in the same school with him next year when he is in his final year there (we have high school year 8-12 here). Cara has been a bit off her solids this week, but loves my hand made rusks hehe I'm offering her food 3 times a day now. 8mths old on the 31st..can't believe that! Hope the massage and dinner out was great! You must have a good hubby there, hang on to him.

    Vic: Love your photos on FB too (in fact I love EVERYONES baby photos..so cute! Gives me ideas too hehe). And I see so much of Yassie in Laura when I see old photos of her as a little girl. I do a double take sometimes when I look at old photos of Yassie. Laura got really upset one day when I was flicking through Yassie's album and I told her it was Yassie. She was like "No!! That's me!!" LOL

    Amy: Hope P is feeling better soon and will sleep well for you soon! Cara still wakes up once a night..sometimes twice. This heat does not help.

    Jacinta: Your little Jamie is really on the move now! Love the pics you post

    BG: Sounds like E is going great guns with food and talking! Cara only says "Dadda", and "Gurri Gurri" (which I believe is "Good girl"..Mum said I said it as a baby too). I THINK i have heard her says "Mum" once or twice when whining..but not sure. Good luck with the eye tests!

    Cara loves her dummy. I have never had a baby that took to the dummy like this one. Yassie and Ronan weren't dummy babies, Laura gave it up at 5mths (though in hindsight I just think I stopped giving it to her). All the other 3 went to sleep on the breast...which ends up giving you nipple damage in the long run..so not great. They tend to chomp down in their sleep too. So probably good that Cara has a dummy i guess. Though I find it hard to get her to sleep without putting her in the pram or putting her on my chest to sleep.

    Oh Cara did her first big tantrum cry earlier. Yassie told her "No" to what she was sucking on and she burst into tears..the type where the cry is nothing coming out at first (just a big open mouth about to cry)..and then "Wahhhhh"..and then..there were full on SNOT BUBBLES!! and REAL TEARS!! omg..never seen her like this before hehe. We couldn't help giggling, but feeling sorry for her at the same time hehe

    Have a great week girls!! I love seeing all you guys on facebook.
    Last edited by CathyS; January 27th, 2010 at 10:15 PM.

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    Naomi: How much is it for a photo with the Seasame St person Naomi? Bailey's pic was sooo cute!!
    I think it was around the $10-15 mark for a 15x20cm print. There were two photo sessions during the day with different characters, and the photo's were available about an hour later - They have a Sesame Street show twice a day which Laura and the babies would LOVE (Unfortunately Bailey was asleep when we were there hahahahaha)

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    Naomi - Have you seen the Roomies pants in Bonds (apologies if they are old news just I had never seen before) - not sure if wide enough for Bailey or not but size 0 looked quite wide. Please ad the pic of your pants would love to see them, MC Hammer was cool once remember!

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    Vic: Oh yes, I am sick to death of pooey nappies. Now that P is on solids she is pooing a lot and they are often big ones like Natty produces! I so badly want Natty out of nappies so I don't have to clean up as much, LOL! Great that CJ is on the move. Phoebe does the same, goes backwards and rotates. No crawling here yet.
    Nay: Yes, I remember you were having dramas last week. Glad Bailey has settled again for you. Last night wasn't quite as bad, but still was pretty crap. At least she settled with cuddles most of the time and only needed feeding twice.
    Great with the finger foods! I think just try whatever. Steamed veg, meat strips, grated cheese. Phoebe is doing both mush and finger foods too. She also loves cruskits, and tends to have one at morning or afternoon tea (if she is awake). She has her main meal at lunchtime which is usually spoon food (today was beef and veg mash out of a jar cause I was feeling lazy... and tired, LOL) and tonight she is having sliced cherry tomato, grated cucumber, avocado chunks and strips of ham. Very messy, but she's happy to just pick at dinner time. After this I will feed her a little yoghurt to fill any empty spaces - we don't have to try hard to get her to eat yoghurt, LOL! She has a separate dessert stomach like her mum
    Cathy: You are right, Phoebe is much more unsettled in the hot weather. Even though it has cooled down here a bit it is still sticky and humid which is very yuck! Phoebe also wakes once or twice a night usually but the last couple of nights she has been particularly unsettled. I am hoping tonight will be better.
    Neither of my girls have been into the dummy. It is odd, as I have nothing against them and tried it with both. Phoebe feeds to sleep and that works very well for us. Sometimes she will self-settle but only occasionally and only when she has a full tummy.
    Have a wonderful time on holiday!

    Sorry everyone else, I am still struggling for time, so know that I've been reading up and am thinking of you.
    I need to get this out though. I am really struggling with Phoebe atm. She cries every time ANYONE leaves the room and it is out of the question to expect her to entertain herself unless you are RIGHT THERE with her. It is really getting to me, and today I nearly lost it. Is anyone else being particularly demanding atm? I am wondering if it is her personality (dear God, please no), or a developmental phase (hopefully) or maybe due to some kind of sickness or teething... I am really hoping that whatever it is it is short-lived cause I am just about jack of her crying the day away because I'm not holding her every second.
    Phew. Thanks for that. xx

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    Hi girls!
    I've been busy aswell... sorry I haven't been in. I get about 3 minutes to update my FB status and then I'm gone again.
    Had MCHN today and Allira's put on 2.2kgs in 4 months. Also grown 10cms in length adn her heads gotten 3.5cms bigger. MCHN was very impressed with her and then she decided to show off and stand up in the middle of the room on her own, without the aid of anything, with a big cheesy grin on her face.

    We've just found out that FIL has shingles and we were all over at their place all day yesterday! haha Joy.
    I think the kids will be ok... Lachie's had his vax for it, so he should only get it mildly if at all, and he's the only one who had contact with FIL. Hoping Allira doesn't get anything.... apparently the nurse from nurse on call said that if Lachie had some of the fluid from FIL on his hands and touched Allira, then she could possibly get it.
    I'm so flat out busy this weekend too. Will have to talk to hubby and maybe call the GP tomorrow and see if we'd still be able to do what is needed. The kids would go from here straight to my folks who have had CP, and it would only be hubby and I that are out and about and we've both had CP. From what the nurse said, that should be fine. As long as we keep the kids away from other kids and pregnant ladies which I would def do for sure, and my folks live out of town aswell which is good. Will see what Gp says anyway.

    Ok gotta go. Someone's screaming again. It never ends! haha

    xxoo

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    Amy: Some days are really tough. I find that Cara demands my attention a lot too. If I am out of the room she will cry. Very frustrating isn't it? I've struggled with the broken sleep for 8mths now..but Laura was the same. I kind of wish I had not given her a dummy now too, as I have to get her to sleep...though it's kinda sweet to cuddle her to sleep. Just remember that it will pass. If you ever want to chat I'm often on facebook.